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Why a 1:1 Retreat Might Be the Ticket to Your Breakthrough

Brittany Moore·Nov 13, 2025· 5 minutes

Hello Loves,

You have read the books, journaled, and meditated. You have been to therapy, pulled the cards, listened to the podcasts, and tried to piece yourself back together between grocery store runs and late night spirals. You've coped in some great ways and likely some really *awful* ways too. You've run the gamut of what your internet gurus have told you and yet, something still feels stuck.

Women often come to me saying, “I do not know what else to do. I have done everything.”

But the truth is that healing is not always about gathering more information. Sometimes what your system needs is immersion. A full body pause in a space away from the noise so you can hear yourself again.

That is where a 1:1 retreat becomes medicine.

Stepping Out of Routine Creates Breakthroughs

Your nervous system loves rhythm, but it heals when the rhythm is interrupted with intention.

When you step away from your day to day patterns, your nervous system finally exhales and the constant productivity loops, the caretaking, the emotional labor, the pressure to keep functioning all begin to soften.

In that quiet space, your body stops surviving and starts relaxing. Old patterns show up to be processed instead of pushed down. Your emotions rise without being rushed. Your truth becomes easier to access because nothing is demanding your energy.

This is the power of retreating. It removes the noise so you can meet yourself more clearly.

Why 1:1 Retreats Go Deeper

Group retreats are beautiful, but a 1:1 retreat is a completely different experience. It is not about blending into a circle. It is about being seen exactly as you are.

Every session, ritual, and practice is tailored specifically to your nervous system and where you are now. You are not following a general itinerary, but rather entering into a healing portal crafted around you.

During my 1:1 retreats, nothing is rigid. I do not force a plan or even a strict wake up time. We listen to your body and allow your emotions to guide and lead. We move through breathwork, hypnotherapy, somatic work, womb healing, grief rituals, shamanic journeying, energy work or parts therapy depending on what your system needs moment by moment.

Breakthroughs happen when healing is relational, slow, safe, and deeply personal.

Why 1:1 Retreats Are the Newest Craze in Healing

There is a reason 1:1 retreats are exploding right now. Women are exhausted from surface level healing. They are tired of six month programs where they only touch the edges of what actually needs to be felt. We live in a world that is wildly overwhelmed, overstimulated, and disconnected from self. Traditional healing models often stretch the process out in one hour a week increments, and while that can be helpful, it is not always enough to create real movement.

A 1:1 retreat is different. It is an intensive immersion. What might take months of trying to fit healing into the cracks of your life can happen in days when you are fully held and fully supported.

When you remove the constant responsibilities, social pressure, and emotional noise, your system does not have to armor up.
It can finally unravel.
It can finally release.
It can finally integrate.

This is why 1:1 retreats feel like a quantum leap, not an escape. They are a reset. They are efficient, deep, and transformative because the space itself becomes a container for your breakthrough.

The Science Behind Why It Works

This is not just spiritual. It is biological.

In a 1:1 retreat setting:

  • Your prefrontal cortex relaxes

  • Your limbic system opens

  • Your vagus nerve is stimulated

  • Your emotional processing centers become accessible

  • Your body exits survival mode

The environment, the pacing, and the absence of stress create conditions where genuine processing can occur. When the body feels safe, the soul can finally speak.

The Myth of Escaping

A retreat is not about running away from your life. In fact, it is actually about meeting your life from a deeper place of understanding, knowing and capacity.

People often ask, “What if I come home and everything is still the same?"

And while the world might be the same, you most definitely will not be.  

Your reactions shift.
Your boundaries shift.
Your tolerance for chaos shifts.
Your connection to your body deepens.

A 1:1 retreat does not fix your life for you. It gives you the clarity, capacity, and emotional strength to live it in a way that finally feels aligned.

What Breakthroughs Actually Look Like

Breakthroughs do not always look like crying on a yoga mat or having a spiritual awakening. Sometimes they are quiet, grounded, and deeply human.

They look like:

  • Feeling your body for the first time in years

  • Releasing grief you did not know you were holding

  • Finally saying no without guilt

  • Understanding your patterns instead of fighting them

  • Remembering joy

  • Breathing fully again

Breakthroughs are not always dramatic and if I am being honest, they are often the quiet moments where you finally meet yourself with honesty and compassion. 

Your Invitation Back to Yourself

If something inside you has been whispering that it is time for something deeper, listen.

Not deeper work.
Deeper presence.
Deeper truth.
Deeper connection to yourself.

Sometimes the thing you are searching for does not come from trying harder.
Sometimes it comes from stepping away long enough to finally hear your soul speak.

A 1:1 retreat is not indulgence.
It is an initiation.

If you feel the pull, trust it.

Loving you always,

-Brittany